This has
been a day of firsts. First day/night on
the boat, first morning cup of coffee and breakfast on the boat, Mike’s first
shower at the marina…little things to be sure, but all these little things set
us up of living the life we crave.
This
morning we went out to walk the dogs and talked a little about how life has
changed so radically in such a short time.
We talked about the things we wanted when we first got married –
American dream stuff, white picket fence, two car garage, 2.5 children and a stable life. All that’s gone now and what has replaced it,
we decided, was more like the life our children lead. How funny is that? Most parents (I know mine did) want a life
for their children that is better, yet still the same, for their kids. But Mike and I have always encouraged the
kids to live the life less ordinary. We
wanted them to follow their passions and travel, meet new people and discover
the world in a way that was not mundane.
And they did! Hales is fueled by
her disease, for sure, but one positive aspect of her illness is that she has
seen much of the United States…I wish it could have been under better
circumstances, but this is a small positive aspect in a life gone so
haywire. Ian is a world traveler! Recently we spoke of his need to list all the
places outside our country he’s visited for an application into the Navy. He realized, after seeing the list in black
and white, that he’s seen a great deal of our little blue globe. When we talked about this fact I was struck
at how proud I felt of the way he’s led his life. Proud and, quite honestly, jealous!
So, if
most parents want for their children, what they wanted…maybe that means that
we've wanted this life all along? I feel
blessed to be here.
And the
pups! They are doing very well. Marley has taken to the boat as if she’s
always been on one. She may be a little
bit discombobulated, but I'm sure that will end soon. She jumped up on the step that leads to the
Starboard door this morning and I thought, “We’ll be ok with her. She already knows where to go when she needs
to go!” Sennah is doing well with the
help of Dramamine. We dosed her in the
late morning, took her for a long walk and then tried to board the boat. With the calming effect of the Dramamine, she
did just fine, not perfect, but a huge improvement! She got another dose this morning and we will
keep her drugged until she feels secure.
We are
dealing with leaks. I'm ok with it! Funny, I thought I'd be freaked out, but I
realize she’s an old boat…she’s gonna leak!
And, I’m living with Mr. Fix it.
Lucky me!

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